Pros
- Might be fun
- Might become less self absorbed
- Parenting could be interesting
- A new unconditional relationship.
- Seeing things through the eyes of a child
- Improves sense of joy!
- A child is what you leave when you pass, they pick up the torch for you;
Cons
- Kids require alot of attention
- babies are very expensive
- Parenting could be boring
- Bye Bye Spontaneity
- Diagreements between parents.
- Might change your mind later.
I am of the thought that everyone, well, everyone in the sense of a mentally stable, non addict, should likely be a parent. I mean lesser people are doing it. Hell, my son gave me a reason to live. If i ever do anything great, i will do it in his name, even now just thinking of him i have tears in my eyes. hes the greatest thing in the world. SO yeah. if you can, do. Becuase the moment your kid is born, its like the colors get brighter, and nothing is the same, everything you thought you knew, it changes, your view changes, when you first hear his first sounds, they are backgrounds by angels singing. its just god damn incredible.